Learning to Recognize the Stories Beneath Our Reactions
We all have an internal reality — a world made up of memories, emotions, and past experiences that shape how we see everything around us. Most of the time, we move through life unaware of how much this invisible lens colors our perception.
Imagine this: a friend cancels your plans. That’s the simple fact. Yet inside, you suddenly feel rejected or unimportant. Your friend only said she couldn’t make it, but your brain — guided by old experiences — translates it into “I’m not valued.” This is your internal reality speaking, not the external one.
Our internal worlds influence every conversation and interaction. Miscommunication happens easily when two people’s internal realities collide. What feels like a harmless question to one person — “Why did you do that?” — might sound like criticism to another.
Understanding your internal reality means slowing down enough to notice what’s happening inside before reacting. Ask yourself: What story am I telling myself right now? Is it true, or is it an echo from the past?
Taking time to reflect helps bridge the gap between what’s happening and what we think is happening.
Art Practice: The Two Realities Collage
Fold a page in half. On one side, represent what actually happened using colors, images, or symbols. On the other, depict how it felt inside. Notice the differences between the two.
Through art, we begin to see how our inner and outer worlds interact — and that’s the first step to greater awareness.
WAVES OF EXPRESSION 
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